<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments on: In Place of a New Year&#8217;s Card: Wishing You A Difficult and Somewhat Painful Year</title>
	<atom:link href="http://southjerusalem.com/2009/09/in-place-of-a-new-years-card-wishing-you-a-difficult-and-somewhat-painful-year/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://southjerusalem.com/2009/09/in-place-of-a-new-years-card-wishing-you-a-difficult-and-somewhat-painful-year/</link>
	<description>A Progressive, Skeptical Blog on Israel, Judaism, Culture, Politics, and Literature</description>
	<lastBuildDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 12:35:48 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3</generator>
	<item>
		<title>By: CL</title>
		<link>http://southjerusalem.com/2009/09/in-place-of-a-new-years-card-wishing-you-a-difficult-and-somewhat-painful-year/comment-page-1/#comment-16940</link>
		<dc:creator>CL</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 16:19:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://southjerusalem.com/?p=1624#comment-16940</guid>
		<description>Beautiful post. The opening story reminds me of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.jlsc.com/winners/2009a/audio/PaulsSong.m3u&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;this song&lt;/a&gt; about a liberal-leaning musician who assumes she knows the politics of the Vietnam veteran who has an American flag painted on his garage door.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful post. The opening story reminds me of <a href="http://www.jlsc.com/winners/2009a/audio/PaulsSong.m3u" rel="nofollow">this song</a> about a liberal-leaning musician who assumes she knows the politics of the Vietnam veteran who has an American flag painted on his garage door.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Hiya Judge: On Dancing Yom Kippur</title>
		<link>http://southjerusalem.com/2009/09/in-place-of-a-new-years-card-wishing-you-a-difficult-and-somewhat-painful-year/comment-page-1/#comment-16612</link>
		<dc:creator>Hiya Judge: On Dancing Yom Kippur</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 08:20:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://southjerusalem.com/?p=1624#comment-16612</guid>
		<description>[...] describes two opposing ways of thinking about the human relationship with God as judge.  Like my friend Bob, I certainly believe in the value of examining one&#8217;s deeds (the Hebrew word for &#8220;to [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] describes two opposing ways of thinking about the human relationship with God as judge.  Like my friend Bob, I certainly believe in the value of examining one&#8217;s deeds (the Hebrew word for &#8220;to [...]</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Suzanne</title>
		<link>http://southjerusalem.com/2009/09/in-place-of-a-new-years-card-wishing-you-a-difficult-and-somewhat-painful-year/comment-page-1/#comment-16290</link>
		<dc:creator>Suzanne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 23:56:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://southjerusalem.com/?p=1624#comment-16290</guid>
		<description>&lt;i&gt;“Who is a true hero?” Our sages ask in Pirkei Avot. And the answer they give is “He who makes an enemy into a friend.” This is not always possible. It takes two to tango, surely.. But does that excuse us from trying?&lt;/i&gt;

I&#039;d like to see some earnestness in this area on  governmental ( leadership) levels. 

On the local level- it&#039;s true, only through pain and suffering  do we really seem to learn ( to grow). Pain and suffering is what gets us unstuck better than anything I know.  But not necessarily. 

The world does not change from sermons.  I do recognize some truths here.  But they will wash away because we don&#039;t learn them this way and for me if I haven&#039;t already learned them- as this article acknowledges. 

&lt;i&gt;Religion enriches life, gives it depth and multi-dimensional visions, but does not grant man the comfort and complacency that nearly always spell superficiality and shallow-mindedness.” Or at least it shouldn’t. But all too often, we put up intellectual walls instead of tearing them down, and take easy refuge in black-and white thinking.&lt;/i&gt;

It shouldn&#039;t but often it does I notice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>“Who is a true hero?” Our sages ask in Pirkei Avot. And the answer they give is “He who makes an enemy into a friend.” This is not always possible. It takes two to tango, surely.. But does that excuse us from trying?</i></p>
<p>I&#8217;d like to see some earnestness in this area on  governmental ( leadership) levels. </p>
<p>On the local level- it&#8217;s true, only through pain and suffering  do we really seem to learn ( to grow). Pain and suffering is what gets us unstuck better than anything I know.  But not necessarily. </p>
<p>The world does not change from sermons.  I do recognize some truths here.  But they will wash away because we don&#8217;t learn them this way and for me if I haven&#8217;t already learned them- as this article acknowledges. </p>
<p><i>Religion enriches life, gives it depth and multi-dimensional visions, but does not grant man the comfort and complacency that nearly always spell superficiality and shallow-mindedness.” Or at least it shouldn’t. But all too often, we put up intellectual walls instead of tearing them down, and take easy refuge in black-and white thinking.</i></p>
<p>It shouldn&#8217;t but often it does I notice.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Visitor</title>
		<link>http://southjerusalem.com/2009/09/in-place-of-a-new-years-card-wishing-you-a-difficult-and-somewhat-painful-year/comment-page-1/#comment-16261</link>
		<dc:creator>Visitor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 01:49:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://southjerusalem.com/?p=1624#comment-16261</guid>
		<description>Beautiful post. The opening story reminds me of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.jlsc.com/winners/2009a/audio/PaulsSong.m3u&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;this song&lt;/a&gt; about a liberal-leaning musician who assumes she knows the politics of the Vietnam veteran who has an American flag painted on his garage door.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful post. The opening story reminds me of <a href="http://www.jlsc.com/winners/2009a/audio/PaulsSong.m3u" rel="nofollow">this song</a> about a liberal-leaning musician who assumes she knows the politics of the Vietnam veteran who has an American flag painted on his garage door.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: A Rabbi Walks Into A Ghost Town&#8230; &#171; Sunlit Water</title>
		<link>http://southjerusalem.com/2009/09/in-place-of-a-new-years-card-wishing-you-a-difficult-and-somewhat-painful-year/comment-page-1/#comment-16260</link>
		<dc:creator>A Rabbi Walks Into A Ghost Town&#8230; &#171; Sunlit Water</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 01:34:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://southjerusalem.com/?p=1624#comment-16260</guid>
		<description>[...] This post, which speaks to me on many levels, is a great example of that potential, which is still there even if it isn&#8217;t being fully realized right now.  It&#8217;s one of the most inspiring things I&#8217;ve read in a long time, and I&#8217;d recommend it to anyone of any religious background or lack thereof. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] This post, which speaks to me on many levels, is a great example of that potential, which is still there even if it isn&#8217;t being fully realized right now.  It&#8217;s one of the most inspiring things I&#8217;ve read in a long time, and I&#8217;d recommend it to anyone of any religious background or lack thereof. [...]</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: george a.hilborn</title>
		<link>http://southjerusalem.com/2009/09/in-place-of-a-new-years-card-wishing-you-a-difficult-and-somewhat-painful-year/comment-page-1/#comment-16245</link>
		<dc:creator>george a.hilborn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Sep 2009 17:34:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://southjerusalem.com/?p=1624#comment-16245</guid>
		<description>Sorry the NYT says 72</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry the NYT says 72</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: george a.hilborn</title>
		<link>http://southjerusalem.com/2009/09/in-place-of-a-new-years-card-wishing-you-a-difficult-and-somewhat-painful-year/comment-page-1/#comment-16214</link>
		<dc:creator>george a.hilborn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 19:55:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://southjerusalem.com/?p=1624#comment-16214</guid>
		<description>correction 71</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>correction 71</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: george a.hilborn</title>
		<link>http://southjerusalem.com/2009/09/in-place-of-a-new-years-card-wishing-you-a-difficult-and-somewhat-painful-year/comment-page-1/#comment-16213</link>
		<dc:creator>george a.hilborn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 19:54:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://southjerusalem.com/?p=1624#comment-16213</guid>
		<description>Off topic: Unfortunately this new year will not have Mary Travers of Peter ,Paul and Mary who died this week at 7; three years younger than I.I can still hear her beautiful voice in my mind as I first did in 1961.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Off topic: Unfortunately this new year will not have Mary Travers of Peter ,Paul and Mary who died this week at 7; three years younger than I.I can still hear her beautiful voice in my mind as I first did in 1961.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Clif</title>
		<link>http://southjerusalem.com/2009/09/in-place-of-a-new-years-card-wishing-you-a-difficult-and-somewhat-painful-year/comment-page-1/#comment-16206</link>
		<dc:creator>Clif</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 16:19:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://southjerusalem.com/?p=1624#comment-16206</guid>
		<description>Very well written. I, too, have enjoyed my share of ghost towns, though in Arizona rather than CA.

I&#039;d start from an even more basic premise with my fellow human being:    I am a tribal creature, fearful and quick to judge out of the most primitive motive - to have my tribe survive even at the cost of destroying another that I mistakenly judge a threat. Prejudice comes naturally to me because it was, more often than not, a preservative in my ancestors. Better be safe than sorry. When in doubt, be prepared to lash out by creating a mental adversary, no matter what the reality of the other. I believe things may have changed just a bit since those prehistoric times, yet you and I, by the fact that we are here now, are the inheritors of that spontaneous prejudice. Since we may differ in clothing, in skin color, in so many aspects of appearance and practice, what wonderful opportunities we present to each other for thoughts prejudicial.

But join me in considering that we are prisoners of our nature. Take my hand with the thought that these days there might be a better means of survival for both of us than using the automatic tool passed down to us that has long outlived its usefulness - that survival now means overcoming ourselves.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very well written. I, too, have enjoyed my share of ghost towns, though in Arizona rather than CA.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d start from an even more basic premise with my fellow human being:    I am a tribal creature, fearful and quick to judge out of the most primitive motive &#8211; to have my tribe survive even at the cost of destroying another that I mistakenly judge a threat. Prejudice comes naturally to me because it was, more often than not, a preservative in my ancestors. Better be safe than sorry. When in doubt, be prepared to lash out by creating a mental adversary, no matter what the reality of the other. I believe things may have changed just a bit since those prehistoric times, yet you and I, by the fact that we are here now, are the inheritors of that spontaneous prejudice. Since we may differ in clothing, in skin color, in so many aspects of appearance and practice, what wonderful opportunities we present to each other for thoughts prejudicial.</p>
<p>But join me in considering that we are prisoners of our nature. Take my hand with the thought that these days there might be a better means of survival for both of us than using the automatic tool passed down to us that has long outlived its usefulness &#8211; that survival now means overcoming ourselves.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: David</title>
		<link>http://southjerusalem.com/2009/09/in-place-of-a-new-years-card-wishing-you-a-difficult-and-somewhat-painful-year/comment-page-1/#comment-16184</link>
		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Sep 2009 23:30:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://southjerusalem.com/?p=1624#comment-16184</guid>
		<description>I have forwarded this as my New Year&#039;s wish for friends and family. Amen again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have forwarded this as my New Year&#8217;s wish for friends and family. Amen again.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>

